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So, I usually get one of 3 responses to my recent life events.
1) The "I feel so sorry for you" look
2) The "I am going to kick someone's ass" look
3) The "I don't know how to deal with this information" look
For any of you reading this who know you gave me one of these...no hard feelings.  I understand.
In fact, you may have gotten one of these looks from me at some point in time!
People from group one, I understand why you feel sorry for me, but please don't.  God has used this intense heartache for my good and the growth and strengthening of my marriage and family.
Those of you from group 2, I love you!  I love that you care about me enough to want to "throw down."  I do, on the other hand, also want you to let that anger go.  I am learning to, so I think you can too.
Group 3, well I didn't mean to shock you or make you uncomfortable, but life often presents us with uncomfortable situations that we never thought we would be in, myself included.  I guess we all just need to learn how to deal with them and I hope that none of you have to deal with information that rocks you to the core in your own marriage.

*God will take a good marriage and make it great. He will take a struggling marriage and get it back on track.  He will take a dead marriage and bring it back to life.

*A Marriage After God's Own Heart by David Clarke